April 9th, Thursday of Holy Week

Exodus 12: 1-8, 11-14, Psalm 116: 12-13, 15-16bc, 17-18, 1 Corinthians 11: 23-26, John 13: 1-15

The readings for Holy Thursday are steeped in tradition and meaning. The humble act of Jesus washing the feet of his disciples has always had an important meaning for me. Although my interpretation is not what a biblical scholar would see, the reading illustrates an important lesson in humble leadership.

Have you ever seen this situation? A person complains to their manager about a coworker who made some inappropriate comments. The person complaining is simply looking for an apology. The person who made the comment maintains that they were completely misunderstood and refuses to apologize. As a result, mistrust, ill will, hatred and animosity surround the relationship.

It would be natural for anyone to be upset and in some way offended that such a complaint was brought forward. In fact, some of us would be enraged by the entire situation. The challenge presented to us in this and similar scenarios is what might Jesus have done? I have seen too many people hide behind the belief that they never “intended” to harm anyone and therefore see no reason why they should reconcile. What people often miss is the more important “impact” of their words and actions on others.

In a vivid defiance of tradition (teachers did not wash feet) and a pointed illustration of what he expected of his disciples…Jesus humbly washed their feet. And when he was finished he asked his disciples to wash one another's feet and use this as a model to follow. This story reminds me to have the courage to not only examine the impact of my actions on others, but for the betterment of others to have the courage to humbly wash their feet or offer reconciliation even when it is not expected or required. A simple apology or gesture of reconciliation can be so freeing for both parties. What would our world be like if we washed more feet?

Reflections…
Is it time to apologize or “wash one another’s feet” even if it is against traditions or in conflict with our pride? How can we humble ourselves as Jesus did and still provide inspirational leadership to others? By walking away from a chance to reconcile with another person am I prepared to share in the bread of life? What acts of humility and kindness can I perform that will serve as a catalyst for others to follow?

Bill Doucette, Apprentice Feet Washer